3 Counter intuitive Techniques to Save My Relationship
It can be a very difficult thing to try and save a relationship, as there is always the worry that you’ll make one wrong move and ruin your chances at saving the relationship altogether.
The Problem when trying to save a relationship, is that what feels like the right thing to do, is often the wrong thing. You see in most cases we should always follow the ‘counter intuitive path’. For example when we feel like calling is when we should probably stay cool instead, and when we feel like pouring our hearts out is when we should really put a lid on it.
As a warning, the techniques you’re about to discover you may have never seen before and at first glance may look and feel wrong, but have been proven time and again to be effective in even what seems the most complicated situations.
Counter intuitive Technique #1
To mend a broken relationship the first technique you need to use, is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. This can be the most difficult thing to accept, and chances are that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you’re able to do so.
It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together again. The main reason is because you need to give your ex time to respect and miss you again. The chances are that they are mad or upset with you at the moment, especially if you’ve been nagging them about getting back together.
Save My Relationship (Counter intuitive) Technique #2
The second technique you need to use is to cut off all communication. You’re probably about ready to close your browser right now! Hold on, because this technique really does work. It helps you to accept the breakup and is the action that shows your ex you are serious.
You see by not communicating you are allowing your ex time to miss you and time to get over the reasons for the break up in the first place. By crowding their space you will only re-evaluate the reasons. This space will be good for your mental health as well, and will help you to think clearly and clear your own mind. It also sets you up for the next technique.
How to Save a Relationship (Counter intuitive) Technique #3